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Old 10-05-2007, 11:08 PM   #1
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Question My husband is obsessed with me fucking other men

Anybody have an obsessed husband who wants you to fuck other men all the time, but never wants to do it himself? Sometimes this hurts my feelings - but I do love to fuck and he seems to have lost interest in the physical part of sex. We've been married 22 years and I feel I'm priming and he is retired - Looking for women who are dealing with same issues - and maybe a fuck friend?

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Old 10-06-2007, 11:36 AM   #2
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I think he still cares about you, and gets off watching you. Pherhaps
he can't get it up any longer and the sex with just you and him just doesnt
excite him. Dont think it is your fault, or you are not attractive its just
the crazy hormone thing in us men. It might pass. But then again this
could be something that brings him back into bed with you.
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Old 10-06-2007, 11:47 AM   #3
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i agree, i'm thinking of leaving my wife for a close friend because she changed totally...no more porn watching and gets pissed if i watch it....doesn't like playing on the net anymore.....no more camming, picture trading....no more hot pillow sex talk during sex....my wife is 55 and i'm 44 so that may have something to do with it.....but my friend is 44 same as me and her hubby is the same as my wife, maybe we should just swap spouses.....honey, i say blow his mind, tell him to find the cocks and your pussy will be all there's....he will love to fuck you after that.....go to sls.com it's a swingers club online and you will be suprised with the people in your area....good luck
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Old 10-06-2007, 11:47 AM   #4
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I am not a female but I did want to reply since I have encountered this many times. It is not uncommon for guys to lose their sex drive as they get older as I am sure you know. Sometimes however I have found as guys age their true sexual desires come out. It is a very common fantasy for a guy to want to see his wife with another guy. Often times it even sparks their own sex life because the husband now sees his wife in a whole NEW sexual way.
I know it sucks because you want him to be the ONE guy that desires you the most; but is it really that bad to have another lover? I know you are not asking for my advice but if I may be so forward... Maybe suggest a compromise? Maybe he has to fulfill one of your fantasies first? -or- Maybe you want a new kitchen? LOL
Seriously however the point is from my experience most women in your shoes are not only hurt because you feel your husband no longer has interest in you sexually but also has lost interest in your marriage and in you as a person. So the point of compromise is for him to re-commit to those things as much as you commit to his sexual desires.

Just my thoughts...if you ever want to chat let me know!
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Old 10-06-2007, 05:09 PM   #5
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you're sick papa
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Old 10-07-2007, 03:08 PM   #6
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Anybody have an obsessed husband who wants you to fuck other men all the time, but never wants to do it himself? Sometimes this hurts my feelings - but I do love to fuck and he seems to have lost interest in the physical part of sex. We've been married 22 years and I feel I'm priming and he is retired - Looking for women who are dealing with same issues - and maybe a fuck friend?
I have been married 21 yrs. myself. I feel I am growing beyond my spouse sexually, I am totally open minded to thoroughly enjoying sex and yet he is falling asleep. Don't get me wrong I love him and he is wonderful to me,but he works hard and is tired at the end of his long day. I sometimes feel guilty for feeling the way I do,because I know he loves me, but I miss the amazing sex we [b]USE TO have. I also work but evidentially have higher sex drive cause I (most of the time) am always willing...he is to tired to have the effort most of the time...sex for us is once, maybe twice a month, I want more, am I wrong?...how can I change this problem
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Old 10-08-2007, 05:56 PM   #7
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Anybody have an obsessed husband who wants you to fuck other men all the time, but never wants to do it himself? Sometimes this hurts my feelings - but I do love to fuck and he seems to have lost interest in the physical part of sex. We've been married 22 years and I feel I'm priming and he is retired - Looking for women who are dealing with same issues - and maybe a fuck friend?

if you need a fuckfriend here i am

27, italian ,beautiful, 7"
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Old 10-20-2007, 10:45 AM   #8
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Women should take as many lovers as they want....i love my wife to fuck other men...really gets us both soooo horny
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Old 10-20-2007, 11:04 AM   #9
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I have been married 21 yrs. myself. I feel I am growing beyond my spouse sexually, I am totally open minded to thoroughly enjoying sex and yet he is falling asleep. Don't get me wrong I love him and he is wonderful to me,but he works hard and is tired at the end of his long day. I sometimes feel guilty for feeling the way I do,because I know he loves me, but I miss the amazing sex we [b]USE TO have. I also work but evidentially have higher sex drive cause I (most of the time) am always willing...he is to tired to have the effort most of the time...sex for us is once, maybe twice a month, I want more, am I wrong?...how can I change this problem
My husband is also one of those men that likes to think of me fucking other men. Last night I talked to a stranger on the phone while my husband fucked me and the man on the phone jacked off. This was third time we've done this to test the waters a little bit. I found myself asking my husband which of his friends would want to fuck me the most and getting off on the desire he has for me and the idea that others want me as badly. I know you're feeling that your husband doesn't want you at all and I'm not sure about all of your circumstances, but being able to talk about it together almost always results in the answer. I may end up fucking another man someday while my husband watches and the road to it has been fun and exciting, but the real pleasure I'm finding is pleaseing him while finding excitement in the same fantasy. I would suggest not fucking other men until you resolve your feelings with your husband.
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Old 10-20-2007, 11:14 AM   #10
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Buzz'd...I have thought about mentioning bringing someone in, I think He would love it but not sure if I could totally go through with it, I would love the full sexual experience,that we all share but in the back of my crazy mind I fear setting up encounters with out ME...am I wierd or what, is this normal for me feel like this. This is what keeps me form bring up the possibility. Would he be willing to share me??
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