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Old 01-21-2010, 09:38 PM   #1
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Default Why Do Middle Aged Men Start Thinking Of Going Bi

I am wondering why straight guys start thinking about sucking dick or getting sucked by a guy when they get into their mid 40's and 50's. Craigslist and this site are filled with ads of guys in that age range looking for a bi experience for the first time. Especially married men. I am trying to figure out why I am curious about it as I get older when I had no interest in doing so just a few years ago.
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Old 01-21-2010, 09:47 PM   #2
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Mid-life crisis?
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Old 01-21-2010, 10:27 PM   #3
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Old 01-22-2010, 05:42 AM   #4
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wive's declining sex drive especially with menopause, men still have one....

finally able or brave enough to explore curiosity......

a mouth is a mouth, a hole is a hole, sex is sex attitude......

the thrill & excitement of trying something taboo/different.....

you can still get it up and hate to waste a good hardon......

others?
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Old 01-22-2010, 06:22 AM   #5
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hidden desires coming from true repressed emotions at least thats my shrink told me

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Old 01-22-2010, 07:17 AM   #6
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I am wondering why straight guys start thinking about sucking dick or getting sucked by a guy when they get into their mid 40's and 50's. Craigslist and this site are filled with ads of guys in that age range looking for a bi experience for the first time. Especially married men. I am trying to figure out why I am curious about it as I get older when I had no interest in doing so just a few years ago.
That's a great question. I think it may be partly due to the hormone balance between testosterone and estrogen. As men age, their testosterone production drops dramatically. I'm not sure but I think the ratio between male and female hormones shifts in favor of estrogen which may encourage feelings of wanting play the passive role in sex, to essentially take on the traditionally female role.

I think it's also the desire to do something you've always wanted to do but never had the nerve to try, the so called mid life crisis. In your fifties you realize you're not going to be around forever, and you're motivated to do things you've never done before, buy a Harley, go to Paris, buy a sports car, suck cock, get fucked in the ass!
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These are all very good reasons, there are probably an infinite number of very good reasons. The internet has made it easier to remain discrete and makes anonymous contact possible. With me it was finally deciding to try it with security of being able to remain anonymous, at least initially. I say go for it!
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Old 01-22-2010, 01:21 PM   #8
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Can't speak for all men, but in my case I guess it was a combination of several things. Here are my thoughts on the matter:

1. I never had any "gay" experiences when I was a kid like alot of the guys who are "life-long cocksuckers" seemed to have, though I never had any homophobic thoughts, either;
2. I was a late-bloomer sexually, didn't get laid 'til my 20's (maybe because of repressed "gay" feelings? who knows), so it seems once I broke through w/ a chick, I was trying to make up for lost time;
3. I shacked up (i.e. common law married the woman I eventually married) at a young age, so I didn't think about exploring after that;
4. As my wife got bored w/ sex (and me, too, come to think about it) I started looking at porn more than I ever did at a younger age. That's when I started noticing my attraction to certain kinds of men (or should I say certain kinds of dicks!)
5. The INTERNET. If it wasn't for the net, I'd still be a m2m virgin. It made it VERY easy for me to find someone discreetly to hook up w/ for the first time, and since...
6. These things all addded up to my first m2m experience at the age of 40...
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Old 01-22-2010, 01:31 PM   #9
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Can't speak for all men, but in my case I guess it was a combination of several things. Here are my thoughts on the matter:

1. I never had any "gay" experiences when I was a kid like alot of the guys who are "life-long cocksuckers" seemed to have, though I never had any homophobic thoughts, either;
2. I was a late-bloomer sexually, didn't get laid 'til my 20's (maybe because of repressed "gay" feelings? who knows), so it seems once I broke through w/ a chick, I was trying to make up for lost time;
3. I shacked up (i.e. common law married the woman I eventually married) at a young age, so I didn't think about exploring after that;
4. As my wife got bored w/ sex (and me, too, come to think about it) I started looking at porn more than I ever did at a younger age. That's when I started noticing my attraction to certain kinds of men (or should I say certain kinds of dicks!)
5. The INTERNET. If it wasn't for the net, I'd still be a m2m virgin. It made it VERY easy for me to find someone discreetly to hook up w/ for the first time, and since...
6. These things all addded up to my first m2m experience at the age of 40...
Good job! I didn't even think of the INTERNET, but you're right. It's made it so easy for so many.......
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:56 PM   #10
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Good job! I didn't even think of the INTERNET, but you're right. It's made it so easy for so many.......
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Can't speak for all men, but in my case I guess it was a combination of several things. Here are my thoughts on the matter:

1. I never had any "gay" experiences when I was a kid like alot of the guys who are "life-long cocksuckers" seemed to have, though I never had any homophobic thoughts, either;
2. I was a late-bloomer sexually, didn't get laid 'til my 20's (maybe because of repressed "gay" feelings? who knows), so it seems once I broke through w/ a chick, I was trying to make up for lost time;
3. I shacked up (i.e. common law married the woman I eventually married) at a young age, so I didn't think about exploring after that;
4. As my wife got bored w/ sex (and me, too, come to think about it) I started looking at porn more than I ever did at a younger age. That's when I started noticing my attraction to certain kinds of men (or should I say certain kinds of dicks!)
5. The INTERNET. If it wasn't for the net, I'd still be a m2m virgin. It made it VERY easy for me to find someone discreetly to hook up w/ for the first time, and since...
6. These things all addded up to my first m2m experience at the age of 40...
guys, can i add a #7 plz....

after all those yrs getting a blow-job from dear wifey, men just realize that another man sucks so much better and even drinks his man juice
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